I guess the answer for me was #3 (Screw It).
I am happier being who I really am... so I chose to
go hairless.
My legs are smooth again (Yay!)... but I’m not sure how I’ll feel when the warm weather returns
to Boston and I want to wear shorts again. Suck it up buttercup… Don’t worry about what may or
may not be.
Personal thoughts and experiences from my long journey to becoming a self-confident transgender.
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Summer Bummer – Men Who Shave Legs
As much as I love the warm weather, I also look forward to
the winter because I can shave my legs and chest without being paranoid about
it.
Even though there are straight guys that shave their legs
and/or chest, I’m still a bit paranoid of the comments that would arise if I
wore shorts with razor stubble visible.
So the questions that face me are:
Do I let the hair grow back? (This would keep society happy
but would make me itch and knock about 6 points from my “piece of mind scale”)
Do I keep shaving and just not wear shorts and tank tops?
(I’d probably look stupid on warm days and sweat my ass off)
Do I say, “screw it” and do what will keep me happier, but
may make me miserable in the long run?
I’m sure that many Trans-genders, Transvestites and Metro-sexuals can relate
to this dilemma. But for those who are just curious, what would be a
simple decision to most people is sometimes a major decision to a Trans-gender
who is living a dual life.
The Good and Bad about Cutting Back on HRT
Sorry I haven’t posted for a bit, but 2 full
time jobs doesn’t leave much time for much else.
OK… so the good and bad:
If I was able, I’d still be full time on HRT, but I had to
cut back due to my breasts become larger VERY QUICKLY.
The Bad:
- I felt so much better on full hormones… so much calmer and more feminine.
- My body hair subsided on full hormones, but now it’s coming back faster.
- My legs looked so much better on full hormones.
- I feel more stress now that I cut back.
The Good:
- While on full HRT, I was a lot less vocal about when people and/or companies were taking advantage of me. I’ve always been very vocal of injustices as a “male” but found myself more passive under full HRT.. I’m not, by any means, saying that woman are less vocal… I’m just saying that the hormones were making me a bit too passive in some situations.
If given a choice, however, I would still be doing full HRT
every day.
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